Social & Emotional Development
Developing Self-Awareness
Core Finding: SE-AWA-C02

A child’s ability to develop self-awareness is a key aspect of his/her ability to understand social situations, interact with others and learn from others.

THE IMPORTANCE OF SELF-AWARENESS ON YOUNG CHILDREN’S SOCIAL INTERACTION AND LEARNING

Children’s ability to develop self-awareness is a key aspect of their ability to understand social situations, interact with and learn from others.

Children’s ability to differentiate themselves from another person is an essential component that affects their ability to have quality interaction with others.

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The acquisition of foundational social skills comes from children’s awareness of themselves as separate entities from others. These foundational social skills include young children’s ability to imitate others, share attention with another person (joint attention), take the perspective of another person, use social language like pronouns (for example, I, me, mine), comprehend social cues and problem-solve in social situations. All of which are important skills for social interaction and learning from others.

Hence, children with better self-awareness manage their emotions and anxiety better and become more confident. This has long-term effects on their mental health even into their teen years and adulthood.

Studies have shown that children's ability to be self-aware and understand that others have internal mental states that guide behaviour (according to the

Theory of Mind

Children’s Theory of Mind - As children think more about themselves and others, they form the Theory of Mind – the psychological knowledge of self and understanding other people’s perceptions, feelings, desires, and beliefs.1

1. Berk, L. E. (2013). Child development (9th ed.). New Jersey, USA: Pearson Education.

) also impacts the development of their
executive function

Executive Function - The set of cognitive operations and strategies necessary for self-initiated, purposeful behaviour in relatively novel, challenging situations. These include controlling attention, suppressing impulses in favour of adaptive responses, coordinating information in working memory, and planning, organising, monitoring, and flexibility redirecting thought and behaviour.1

1. Berk, L. E. (2013). Child development (9th ed.). New Jersey, USA: Pearson Education.

abilities, such as the ability to plan, self-regulate and focus attention and consciously control one's thoughts and actions.

For example, a study of 43 children aged between three and four showed that there was a correlation between children’s executive functioning, especially the ability to inhibit one's thinking process and take another’s perspective (Theory of Mind). In order to develop inhibitory abilities, the child would have had to develop self-awareness and understand the impact of self on external circumstances (external self-awareness) in their earlier years.